Parents give me pressure about school and grades: Try discussing your goals and interests openly. Show them that you understand their concerns and that you have a plan for academic success. You could also agree on a shared goal or timeline that balances their expectations with what you find manageable.
Parents are upset that I am unhealthy: Show appreciation for their care about your health, and discuss ways you’re willing to improve it. You might set small, achievable goals together, like healthier meal choices or a more consistent exercise routine, so they can see your commitment.
Argument about what I should study in university: Take time to listen to their perspective, and explain the reasons behind your preferences calmly. You could research and present potential career paths and job opportunities related to your interests, showing them how your chosen field aligns with your future plans.
Parents tell me to sleep earlier but I don’t: Recognize the importance of sleep for health and academic performance. Agree to try sleeping earlier on certain days to see if it helps, or explain your current schedule so they can understand when you might be able to start transitioning to an earlier bedtime.
I want to buy or do something, but they don’t agree: Respectfully explain why it’s important to you, and consider compromising by showing that you understand their concerns. Offering to use your own money, if possible, or suggesting a way to earn it may also help them see your responsibility and independence.